My manager is rude and demanding – should I leave?

My manager is rude and demanding – should I leave?

  1. I have $90K in student loan debt. Should I live the life I love or focus on paying that debt?
  2. How can being a podcast guest help me get exposure?
  3. My manager is extremely rude and demanding. I have tried my best to work for her but I feel myself getting deeper into depression over the situation.

“Never stand begging for that which you have the power to earn.” — Miguel de Cervantes

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Show Notes:

Episode – 09-09-16

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Summary:

In this week’s episode, Dan talks to the 48 Days community about the importance of getting your message OUT THERE in the world with his friend, and Interview Valet founder Tom Schwab. Dan also takes on a number of questions that deal with determining the “right time” to leave a job, pivot careers, or move to a new city.

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Time Stamped Show Notes:

  • 00:30 – Preview of Today’s theme: should I leave my job because of my manager?
    • I have $90K in student loan debt. Should I live the life I love or focus on paying that debt?
    • How can being a podcast guest help me get exposure?
    • My manager is extremely rude and demanding. I have tried my best to work for her but I feel myself getting deeper into depression over the situation.
  • “Never stand begging for that which you have the power to earn.” — Miguel de Cervantes
  • 05:31 – Success Stories!
  • 05:39 – The New 48 Days Membership Site
  • 05:57 – Sounds like everyone L-O-V-E-S the success stories
  • 06:39 – From Will – 10 Super Fun Team Icebreakers and Challenges
    • 06:51 – 10 exercises centered around a superhero theme
  • 07:12 – From Robert – Words of Power
  • 03:33 – From Duke Matlock – Getup and Grow
  • 07:45 – From Brian Holmes – Four Cornerstones for Strategic Living
  • 07:55 – The Thursday Night Coaching Series
    • 08:05 – Marci Harris on 9/22 at 7 PM EST
    • 08:39 – Erin Robinson on 10/6 at 7 PM EST
  • 13:09 – From Tamara – I love playing with hair, but I’m also a direct selling addict!…so that is my business structure…is it too much? I honestly feel overwhelmed from time to time.
    • 15:35 – Put on the BRAKES!
    • 15:55 – You’re in different brands, products, targets….you’re the jack of all trades and the master of none
    • 16:29 – Don’t be a generalist, be a specialist
    • 17:00 – You need to read the book Essentialism
  • 17:00 – From Natomia – I’m finishing graduate school in the next 6 months and am trying to figure out the next steps…what factors do you feel are the most important for choosing when is the right time to move to a new city? Also, I’m about $90k in debt…should I pursue my passion or jump ship and pay off the debt?
    • 19:19 – Right now, this doesn’t sound like a good plan
    • 20:19 – The debt is the elephant in the room…you’ve got to get rid of it
    • 20:44 – Live on rice and beans for two years and get that thing paid off
    • 21:18 – I rarely tell people to avoid their dreams, but you need to get the debt GONE
  • 22:20 – How to leverage your message?—Interview Valet
    • 23:05 – Start of interview
    • 23:34 – How Interview Valet works
    • 23:58 – Podcasting is all about giving people what they want
    • 24:18 – It’s on-demand radio
    • 24:35 – it is the only medium where learners can multitask
    • 26:05 – Building up your audience can take time…but with podcasting? It’s WAY faster.
    • 27:50 – It doesn’t matter how great your message is if you don’t PUT IT OUT THERE
    • 29:33 – Make it EASY for your audience
    • 31:10 – People won’t read a dozen of your blogs, but they’ll listen to a 48-minute podcast
    • 33:19 – How to connect interviewvalet.com/48days
  • 34:40 – Talking about Cliff and his Limericks
    • 35:20 – Turn them into a stamp line
    • 35:45 – Custom rhymes for celebration
    • 36:40 – Why choose such a hard path when there is so much room for opportunity?
  • 37:49 – Success magazine, and how to build courage
    • 38:45 – Emily Dahl and empathy cards
  • 40:35 – Ted and the Sanctuary
    • 41:18 – knocking on doors, selling his musical talents
    • 41:49 – Six years later, this August 29th, tears for fears, and 66M views later…Ted has gone viral
  • 43:06 – From Hope – My manager is rude and demanding—how do I get out of this!?
    • 44:08 – Be positive, keep looking forward
    • 44:18 – People change jobs all the time everyday…that’s not a big deal
    • 46:15 – Keep your head up

3 Key Points:

  1. A message is only valuable if people can hear it.
  2. Don’t be a jack of all trades—the only thing that leads to is failure. Specialize!
  3. If debt is the devil, student debt is the devil on steroids—get it OUT of your life as quickly as possible.

 

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Credits:

  • Show Notes provided by Mallard Creatives

 

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  • Archie

    Ted Yoder is a ROCK STAR Hammer Dulcimer player, and a 48 Days friend/brother! And he will tell anyone he owes a lot of the reason for his success to non other than, Mr. Dan Miller! 🙂