The lead-in question on the information requested when I coach someone personally is this: “Briefly describe your current work situation.” Here is a response I received: “Antithetical to my personal and professional expectations. Unfulfilling on multiple levels: Lack of meaning and purpose; a myopic pursuit of the almighty dollar; a parasitic and never ending voyage into the shallow waters of avarice.”
Wow – what a powerful and eloquent statement of being off track. And of the understanding that money is never enough
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compensation for investing one’s time and energy. The dictionary defines “avarice” as extreme greed for wealth or material gain.
This young man continued: “Because of the necessity and immediacy of my situation…I took the path of least resistance which has led me down a perilous pike of disappointment and despair. As a direct result of our financial obligations, I absolved myself of the freedom to easily pursue my dreams for the oppressive restraints of debt.”
Feeling trapped by the realities of life, he felt blocked from any attempts of following his true passions. Incidentally, he had joined a very successful family business where he was well-liked and expected to move up quickly.
Fortunately, new possibilities are possible. We mapped out a process for redirection and an immediate plan for expression of his very impressive writing skills. He can hike, run a marathon, study fossils with his kids and get involved in a book club. Life does not have to be put on hold. There are always ways to make deposits of success in areas deemed important.
There are few obstacles beyond those existing in our minds, if we are creative in looking for solutions. And remember to enjoy the journey, starting with today. Success is not a future event – it is the “progressive realization of worthwhile goals.” Thus, either you are successful today or you are not.
I trust you’re not feeling trapped in the “shallow waters of avarice.” Do something noble, purposeful and fun today!
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Wow, what a powerful statement. so glad he is reaching out to move to the next level.
Another great post Dan. My life changed the moment I realized “Success is not a future event – it is the “progressive realization of worthwhile goals.”” I’m fairly certain I learned this from you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom so freely.
Dan… just a couple of notes. Your humor section is just what I need everyday! Makes me chuckle or laugh because the reality of it….some of it could be true. Next, your quotation section is always so filled with great quotes that make me ponder the intelligence of some people. However, since you’ve gone to the new color scheme or formatting your news letter in different shades….don’t care for it. Hard to read and distracting. Black lettering on a white background has always suited me best. Easier on the eyes. I am not sure if you’ve ever gotten any feedback on that issue. OR…it just may be me.
Glen,
The feedback has been overwhelmingly positive. But I hear what you’re saying. I always convert the newsletter to print option and it immediately reverts back to black on white. I agree that the black on red may be a cool look but it’s definitely more challenging on the eyes. We’ll keep considering options. Thanks for your feedback.
Wow. The beginning of his story was absolutely painful to read. I hear so many similar type stories with friends often. It’s an awesome thing that he took the effort to try to change and that he reached out to you to help. I look forward to hearing a success story in the future!
Vincent,
Actually he has made some amazing progress. Thanks for the encouragement.
That’s awesome! So great to hear. BTW, I just signed up for Innovate, really looking to seeing you again and hanging out at The Sanctuary!
Vincent – very cool. We’re going to have a blast! Be ready to give us an update on your creative life!