I had a young man come in as a client who wants to find a “stable, secure and enjoyable” career path.  He received a degree in marketing six years ago but has been frustrated in the jobs he has had.  Employers seem to want clear results from his efforts and he resists being pushed so hard.  He clearly stated that he wants a job with security, no stress, and at least $45K that he will find enjoyable.

Unfortunately, he has the process reversed.  He is standing in front of the stove of life saying, “Give me heat and then I’ll put some wood in.”  Life does not respond to that message with anything but disappointment.  Security, great pay and no stress are the result of doing something you love – and doing it with excellence.  They are not something we can approach directly.  They are byproducts of living out your values and vision.  Looking for a job that pays well is addressing the circumstance and is likely to be a band-aid solution to your unrest. Clear purpose and meaning lead to greater self-esteem, confidence, boldness, enthusiasm, security, contentment, and ultimately money.  Lack of opportunity – and money – are often nothing more than lack of purpose or direction.  Read more »