What opportunities are you missing?

Dan Miller —  November 12, 2012 — 13 Comments

On November 1st I posted a blog – Need an extra $14,000 – in which I shared that we had 4000 copies of 48 Days to the Work You Love that we wanted to get out of inventory.  Here’s the picture of Brian Nash, a local Franklin attorney, as we are loading the last few cases in his van late Saturday evening.  I offered them at $1.00 each and suggested some ideas for making money.  Many of you responded with possibilities but Brian was the only one who made an actual offer – $2000 for all 4000 books – and they are now his.

A recent Harvard Business School study asked the question: “What are the top Brian Nashcharacteristics of high achievers?” Of course, in the list were things like intelligence, education, and attitude. But at the very top of the list one thing stood out — Speed of Implementation, having the ability to act quickly. 80% of decisions should be made immediately.

Robert Schuller has a saying that speaks to this issue: “Indecision is the greatest thief of opportunity.” Or what about this quote from D.L. Moody: “Every mistake I’ve made in my life, I made when I thought twice.”

What does the Bible add to these thoughts, or rather what does the Bible say that is the basis for these modern thoughts?  In James, Chapter 1, verses 6-8 we are told:

“He who doubts is like a wave of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind.

 For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord.

He is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.”

The picture here is of a man who is drunk, staggering from side to side on the road and getting nowhere.  James says vividly that such a man is “dipsuchos,” which literally means a man with two souls, or two minds, inside him.  One believes, the other disbelieves; and the man is a walking civil war in which trust and distrust of God wage a continual battle against each other.

Indecision is a crippling characteristic. Indecision in one area will carry over its negative effects to other areas of one’s life. I have seen parents, unsure about selecting a school for their child, become almost incapable of functioning for months, agonizing over this decision. I have seen individuals frustrated in their jobs who remain in toxic corporate cultures because they are unable to make the decision to move on. Self owned businesses that have all the fatal signs of failure and yet the owners appear trapped in not being able to make the decision to draw that line in the sand and stop the deepening hole.

Joanne and I have used a concise process for all the years of our marriage. When confronted with a decision, we allow a two-week maximum for arriving at a decision. Whether it is where to move, what kind of car to purchase, making a career or business decision, or how to handle a difficult relationship with a relative, we approach the process as follows:

1. State the problem
2. Get the advice and opinions of others
3. List the alternatives
4. Choose the best alternative
5. ACT

Yes, this process must be bathed in prayer. But a daily walk with God should provide confidence in moving ahead quickly with most decisions.

You too can deal effectively with the challenge of making solid decisions. Don’t be indecisive, and unstable in all your ways. Rather, walk in the strength, confidence and boldness that come from decisive action.

Brian has a large Hispanic clientele – he’s planning on offering the books at $5.00 each which at this point would actually make him $18,000.  Opportunities are like that.  Quick action may make it even better than anticipated.

  • http://www.livebeyondawesome.com/ Jen McDonough “The Iron Jen”

    Dan – thank you for this great follow up post. I am saving it to reference back to for myself as a reminder and as a gift to others.

    Brian – way to take action and show us how it can be done! Love it!! Congrats and best wishes (no luck needed for you as you are obviously a person to make it happen).
    Live Beyond Awesome.
    Jen
    Twitter: @TheIronJen

    • 48DaysDan

      Jen – yep, Brian is a sharp young guy who knows how to take action. His first year as an attorney here he had over 300 cases. Most attorneys take years to get to half that.

  • http://marleeward.com/ Marlee

    Hi Dan! I love this. I think so many times people wallow in making the “right” choice or waiting to “hear an answer” and sometimes we miss our opportunity as we wait. I think all of your advice is spot on (as usual), and if I could add anything, it would be to have faith that whatever you decide will work together for your good if you keep looking for OPPORTUNITY! :)

    • 48DaysDan

      Marlee – you are so right! That faith of expectancy has to pull us forward. Logic alone is not enough to get us through the obstacles.

  • Debbie Wilson

    Dan, this is a great post. I am intuitive and analytical which can cause
    me to go back and forth. Psalm 23 says the Lord leads us in paths of
    righteousness for His name sake. For me that means I trust Him to answer
    my prayer and lead me on the right path because His name as the good
    Shepherd is on the line.

    • 48DaysDan

      Debbie – yeah, being “analytical” can look like procrastination or indecision if we aren’t careful. Thanks for your comments.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=13716942 Markika Harris

    This post has inspired me. I’ve been stuck for YEARS.. at least 3.. in a world of indecision and it’s time for me to break free of this mentality and make some moves.
    Kudos to you Brian and Kudos to you Dan Miller for exemplifying 100% of what my Pastor refers to as having a “Spirit Of Excellence”. That was a great opportunity.. and from reading your books.. I’m truly glad you practice what you preach.

    • 48DaysDan

      Markika,
      Make the next 48 days your time to get “unstuck” and to start the New Year inspired, decisive and ready to make it your best year ever.

  • A Dan Reader

    Robert Schuller should probably have thought more than once before he went down the path he did and ended up the way he did.

    • 48DaysDan

      Agreed, he obviously made some decisions that could have used more wisdom.

  • sue

    Wow, I have never thought of things this way before. I know I’m indecisive and I always thought it was because I wanted to make sure I was making the right decision. I just think it’s because I was too afraid to decide.

    • 48DaysDan

      Sue – yep, often in “being sure” we miss the window of opportunity.

  • Lorien

    I’ve been struggling with this very issue for sometime. Thank you for your words of wisdom. You always a way of wording things that give me a fresh and more positive perspective.