Savor the Unexpected….

Dan Miller —  August 20, 2012 — 10 Comments

As I was scanning my notes for this morning’s blog I got a text from my son Jared.  He and his wife and new baby have been in Canada for a wedding and are headed back to Nashville this morning.  After boarding their plane and taxing to the runway they were told there was an engine problem and they would have to return to the terminal.

After living in Africa for the last seven years, Jared has become accustomed to flight delays – and to planes that  leave an hour or so before scheduled.  His comment this morning was “I am still always impressed that we have the privilege of flying.”  I added that we should be thankful the airline decided not to put that plane in the air rather than just “hoping” the engine would be okay.  And then I added in my reply text to Jared – “Savor the Unexpected.” 

How often have you been misdirected on a trip, with your health, in a relationship or in your career, only to find that the detour led to something even better?

I could not begin to list the times in my life when an unexpected detour opened the door to something amazing.  Here are just some highlights:

  • Unlike the other kids in town my Dad wouldn’t buy me a cool car.  That forced me to build an eye-popping street rod and to learn a whole lot about cars in the process.
  • I crashed in business only to find that I had learned some principles that led to a new kind of business success.
  • The biggest tree in the approach to my office “died” and then birthed a magnificent eagle sculpture that draws people from around the country.
  • In January of this year I had an emergency appendectomy.  That opened my eyes to take a fresh look at my overall health habits and I transformed the way I feel today.

What unexpected detours have you had that put you on a better path?

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  • http://www.michaelgholmes.com/ Mike Holmes

    I put together a site that I KNEW everyone wanted…unfortunately “they” forgot to tell me lol! Long story short, the site failed but I love things related to coding, market testing, and networking that taught me success for another site. SO that worked out

    • 48DaysDan

      Mike,
      None of us learn while sitting on the sidelines – we have to jump in the game. Those lessons learned are seldom wasted. We just apply them in new ways.

      • http://www.michaelgholmes.com/ Mike Holmes

        I had this interview with Perry Marshall (which unfortunately got messed up because I did it on Google plus…or I messed something up) and in talking about failure he quoted this Scripture: “In all labor there is profit.” Then he said something that will forever blow my mind: ” Persistence breeds authority.” So you’re right. We NEVER lose when we play no matter the outcome!

        • Jeff

          I like that Mike: “Persistence breeds authority.”

  • Ben Branam

    HaHa! I had the best time once flying in the middle east. Same thing happened. I was working for the government overseas and had a ticket for that morning flight out of Dubia, but when I got to the counter the flight was full and leaving. So I found a friend and we ended up flying through Jordan to make our final destination in Iraq. It took us almost two days and we had the greatest time hanging in Jordan and I made a new friend. It was great fun and I really enjoyed the time. It never would have happened without the flight delay or finding a way to look at it positively. I also had the best breakfast ever at the FourSeasons in Jordan. it was a good two days.

    • http://www.michaelgholmes.com/ Mike Holmes

      Now that sounds fun Ben!

    • 48DaysDan

      Ben,
      I thought of this quotation when I read your story:

      Optimist: A man who is chased up a tree by a lion but enjoys the scenery anyway. Walter Winchell

  • Andy Traub

    I got engaged to the wrong person and we broke it off 30 days before the wedding. I learned that quitting can be a very, very good thing. I’ve quit lots of stuff since then because other than my marriage pretty much anything can be replaced.

  • Brian O’Keefe

    When I was a teenager, we had a family gathering at a relative’s house. We all went to a park and ended up near a creek. One person accidentally fell in, and then we all went in, with our street clothes on, including all the adults, and swam and played in the water for an hour. We still talk about how fun that was, because it was totally impromptu. We couldn’t have planned fun like that!

    • 48DaysDan

      Brian – that’s a great story. Typical of how wonderful memories are made.