TEN – How Would You Rate Your Life

We hear a lot of Christians saying we should be content with nothing – that Godliness implies having no money and little life satisfaction.  Our reward for that Godliness will only come in heaven when we’ll all sit around on clouds popping grapes in our mouths.

And then I open a new book by Pastor Terry Smith and the first line of the introduction says:  “I don’t think people want enough.”  Terry’s new book TEN – How Would You Rate Your Life was just released last Tuesday.   He goes on to say he doesn’t think we should want more stuff, but more life.  I could not agree more.

Pastor Terry says “It amazes me how passively many people of faith live – as if we have no control over anything, no ability to make even the slightest difference.”

In chapter 5, titled Created to Create, we read:

“When I think of transcendence, I think of the ability

  • to choose
  • to respond, and
  • to change things that already are.”

I’ve always loved the concept of transcendence – that experience that goes beyond our natural understanding. The ability to rise above one’s circumstances and make a difference.  I look for times of transcendence all during the week – in my daily work, not just on Sundays.  Don’t you long for times like that in your life?

If you want more, if you are seeking more transcendence in your life, I encourage you to add TEN – How Would You Rate your Life to your library today.  Ken Blanchard, Bill Hybels, Cory Booker, Wyclef Jean and Jack Welch are just a few who are already recommending it.

Want a gift copy of TEN?  Give us an example of how you would like more transcendence in your life.  I’ll select two responses (received by January 16th, 2012) that inspire me and send you a free copy of TEN given to us by the author.

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  • Ben Moore

    I tend toward being task- and project-driven, usually biting off more than I can chew and getting easily bored with what’s on my plate.  Because of my desire to sprint after one or two things, my goal the last few years has been to take smaller steps in each area of my life, giving more room for prayer to allow God to prioritize my days anew.  But this is the on-going challenge I have.  I desire to pace myself and strengthen my prayer life so I don’t neglect areas in my life just because they don’t feel as good to pursue today.  Sometimes it is a gift to be able to focus in on a one or two things with force.  That’s almost easy for me.  The harder part, withholding and committing what I do to the Lord so I can be faithful with everything (work, family, faith, discipleship, and health)

  • Jen McDonough

    It is easy to be satisfied with what we have sometimes – like a fat cat, why chase the mouse when we know some sort of dinner is coming anyways. 
    I personally struggle with this sometimes and need to remind myself what is told to my kids when they start to whine about doing something – “everything in life worth doing takes effort, so might as well just do it.”
    2012 will be a year full of fear, fun, and many personal challenges to overcome for me in order to continue to transform our lives by zeroing in on what God is calling me to do. It is not just “me” that is transforming – it is also shaping our kids into what they will be transformed into as well. Pretty cool.
    Each day night I pray with our family that we let Him lead our lives, but just as importantly that we all have the courage to take action and follow. 
    Live Beyond Awesome my friend.
    Jen 
     

    • Jen McDonough

      I am taking my name out of the hat – getting to see the responses is prize enough for me. Our life is already between 9.791 to 9.16 and I know I need to move into action to get it to my goal of 10.03 (it seems there should be a little room to stuff more into a 10!). I will put Terry’s book on my list of reads as it sounds like an awesome book!!
      Thanks!
      Jen

  • http://talesofwork.com kimanzi constable

    When I published my book and when I talk on my blog about following your passion I tend to get a little negative response from people in my Church. They do have the “wait on the Lord while I sit here and do nothing” attitude. The Lord calls us to action!
    I think it’s super natural to be able to share the Gospel and see others come to Christ, knowing that if they had died previosly they would have been in hell! After accepting Jesus they have eternal life, to be able to share that message and impact peoples lives in that way is truly transcending!

  • macarr

    I’d love to receive a copy of TEN. And here’s why:

    I have a lot in my life right now; a loving husband, who willingly provides for his family. Two beautiful children, 4.5 and 3 months. A home that we never thought was in our future. All of this before the age of 32, which is what I will be in May. Yet, not having a career is something that has always held me back, emotionally. I nanny full time, because that is the only option I have right now to bring income in without having to put my children in daycare. (I have been fortunate enough to be employed as such since my daughter was an infant, almost totally full time, with a few breaks in between jobs.)
    As a child, my mother was a nanny, and I ALWAYS told myself I would never fall in her footsteps. Ha. She is now a preschool teacher, and our daughter is in her class! :)
    Still, I know that even being in music ministry at church, and having the perfect American family, I won’t feel like a TEN until I am personally successful. Sad? No. Driven.
    I feel the need to accomplish on my own, even starting this late in life. I never saw myself as a stay at home mom when I was growing up. I knew I wanted more. I know I want more. I just need a little shove in the right mindset that it isn’t too late to start fresh in that.
    I would have been a great event planner…I will be a great event planner. And being able to do that while nannying? Totally feasible.

  • http://www.seniorlifejourneys.com/ Carol Howell

    Transcendence, according to Wikipedia, is ”the aspect of God’s nature and power which is wholly independent of (and removed from) the physical universe”.  The first thing that comes to my mind is a recent experience working with my choir of individuals with dementia.  One lady in particular brought the experience of transcending forefront for me.  Mrs. Davis had stopped speaking many  months ago.  However, I decided to wheel her into Music Therapy Class with me every Monday as we prepared for a Christmas performance.  Much to the surprise of everyone who had been caring for her, Mrs. Davis began to sing.  In fact, at our actual performance, Mrs. Davis sang a solo of “Away In A Manger”.  Her family was stunned.  The audience was a sea of tears.  I was so proud I could have floated off my feet.  That desire to touch people in a way that is amazing, unexpected, and extremely rewarding is truly seeing God’s power manifesting itself wholly independent of the physical universe. 

    • Anonymous

      Carol,

      I loved your example of “transcendence” here.  I’m sending you a copy of the book I
      referenced – TEN by Pastor Terry Smith.  
      I think you’ll enjoy it and find more examples of ways to bring
      transcendence into your life.

       

      May you be blessed in your ongoing work with the elderly.

      • Carol

        HOW EXCITING!  When the book arrived with your letter, I was thrilled.  I have called everyone who will listen to share the good news!  Blessings and smiles to you. 

        Carol Howell
        Senior Life Journeys

  • http://twitter.com/fuelthemuse Debra Hilton

    I would like to transcend my fears: of not being good enough, of failing those I love.
    It is too easy to give up and complain about how things don’t work out.  2012 is the year that I am going to choose – I’ve started by setting some goals, I plan to continue by making daily choices so that my life reflects those goals, not the ones others have for me.
    God is not stingy – we just need to look around to know that – I believe that he has abundance in store, if I will just quit living as though I’m on a shoestring – not just financially, but in my aims and ambitions.

  • http://herresolution.com/ Miranda

    In the year 2012, I have made many goals to get more out of life.  I am not content to let life happen to me but instead to take an active role in my life.  I believe that my life is 50% attitude, 40% choice, and only 10% circumstance.  I refuse to let circumstance define who I am.  
    My motto for this year is “Focus and Discipline”.  I intend to be focused and disciplined in the areas of life that matter most to me.  These areas are Faith, Family, Finance, and Fellowship.  In the process of improving my life, I am teaching others the value of goals and not being satisfied with mediocrity.

  • http://168opportunities.com/ Peder Aadahl

    Unfortunately, many of us as Christians have been led to believe that we are “called or supposed to be called to ministry” in the form of pastors, missionaries (overseas), priests, nuns, or other forms of religious position.  Though some people’s calling is to be in these positions, there are many of us who are doing or pursuing these things because we feel that they (those positions) are the best way to serve God, often times as a way to make us feel like we are better in God’s sight. 
    We could never be so wrong!  Ultimately it does not matter one whit in the sight of God if we be either a blacksmith, priest, or seamstress (paraphrase Luther).  God views us the same.  However, he has given us all unique gifts and abilities to use as our ministry.  If we choose to avoid them, and do not respond to that calling, we will have to settle for less then #10 lives. 
     I know this because I was there and I did believe that.  I was trying to prepare myself to go to seminary.  Even tohough I didn’t have a good feeling about it, I just felt that I was supposed to go because of people telling me to (I’m a pastor’s Kid myself), and because somehow (whether I wanted to believe it or not) I had made myself believe that becoming a pastor was somehow going to make me better in God’s sight. 

    Thankfully I read 48 Days (this last year) and after reading the Luther quote, I realized I was about to be living a lie.  Only after looking internally (not from others “peer pressure”) was I able to truly identify my gifts and use them to do the “ministry that the Lord had directed me to” doing something I love.   Choosing to focus on my strengths has allowed me to impact others, like my website 168 Opportunities .  Based on the number of hours you have in the week, I have been able to encourage others to experience “transcendence” in their lives choosing to respond to their current situations and make a change for the better. To strive for #10. 
    God has given us all gifts that can give birth to amazing ideas or concepts. It is only when we  begin to pursue our passions and use these gifts, and have a willingness to change that  our ministry will shine through as the Lord guides us through our creativity.

    Thank you Dan for choosing to use the gifts that God has given you.  I am not sure where I (or others) would be, if you had not done so!

    • http://168opportunities.com/ Peder Aadahl

      This year I am determined to take my life and others to a new level.  I
      believe that “Ten- How would you rate your life” would be help in doing
      so!

    • Anonymous

      Peter – what a powerful example of finding “transcendence” in your own life.  It’s not in following the crowd or doing what’s socially acceptable but in finding your own authenticity.  Thanks for sharing.
      I’ve got a copy of TEN on it’s way to you – Dan

  • Duane Thompson

    When I think of transcendence, (which I admit is not a word that comes to mind very often), I think of things like “rising above”, “treading new ground”, and “overcoming”.  I also think in terms of desire and what is keeping me (or you) from obtaining the things or the life I desire.  While I would say that the person I am now is hardly recognizable from the person I was when I received Christ as my Lord and Savior nearly thrity years ago; I would also say that my reaction to being in the very prescence of God would likely be very similar to Isaiah chapter 6–I have a long way to go and much to transcend in the way all the the things and ideas that have become familiar and all the ideas that have not been tested for truth.  These things need to be broken down in order for transendence to take place in meaningful ways.  I think it is part of the process of knowing who we are and what we believe. 

    As for desire itself, a few scriptures come to mind and a comment to tie it all together.  The first comes from James 4:2(b)-3 “you do not have because you do ask God. when you ask, you do not receive because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” and the second comes from Psalm 37:4 “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.”  To me, this just says that we ought to be careful what we wish for.  On the one hand, we ought to be careful for wasting time wishing for things that we are unlikely to obtain because our motives are messed up–and on the other hand, we should also be careful to line our desires up with the will of God–which is what the concept of discipleship call us do.  There is nothing wrong with wanting the abundant life Christ came to offer–but we ought to check our motives. 

    The most telling part of the story for me is in searching change with relation to having success in all areas of life–rather than making trades the are win-lose instead of win-win.  I don’t think it is wise to focus on all the areas of life at once, but I do think it is a good practice to have goals in each of the areas and plan to have small and consistent victories in each of the areas.  I would suggest prayerful consideration of what your goals ought to be with regard to work, spiritual, physical, mental, family, charity–and whatever areas of life are important to you. It might not be the only way to make sure you have the right motives behind your desires, (because in large part I think people know right from wrong), but it is a really good way to get on the right course.

  • Mechelle

    We were riding together a few weeks ago after attending the Vikings/Redskins game. I asked him, “Timmie, what’s 1 thing you want to do before you die?”

    After he replied, I boldly told him, “Don’t worry, Timmie. You still have time”.

    Boy, I was wrong. Timmie was murdered last night in our hometown.

    I WISH I’d told him that he didn’t still have time..

    I want more transcendence in better using the time I have left on this earth.

    I want to do better at living life NOW.

  • Nikki

    I would like more transcendence so I could move past the fear to dig down, discover my God-given gifts, talents, and passions, and find the work both I and my husband love.

    I want to stay home with my children & serve the Lord but can’t because I am the breadwinner and am paralyzed by
    fear and lack of clarity. My husband & I are lost, without a rudder to guide.

    Lord, help us so we can help others.

  • Amy Terese Smith

    In the past, I believed that the essence of
    “transcendence” was well expressed in a personal declaration that I
    coined several years ago:  “I’ve surely been through the fire, but I
    did not burn up…I don’t even smell like smoke!” At that time, I’d had my
    share of life’s ups and downs, set-ups and setbacks, headaches and heartbreaks…and
    had I arrived, victoriously, on the “mountain top”. Though battered and bruised,
    I was strong and mighty, more than a conqueror…more than confident about what
    the future would hold. Fast forward to a few short years later, when – after an
    onslaught of unexpected and unexplained trials, tribulations and tests – the
    “conqueror” had been totally beaten down. After a series of major losses -
    personal and professional – I felt disappointed, despairing and depressed. I
    allowed myself to become “defeated” – to become a mere shadow of my former
    victorious self. For the past several years, like the prodigal son, I’ve
    “wallowed” in my own “pigsty” of isolation, bitterness, fear and self-loathing.
    Until – again, like the prodigal son – I “came to” myself!

     

    I realized
    that where I “was” is not where I wanted be…and certainly not where I AM destined
    to be. I realized that I AM too multi-talented to continue not living up to my
    full potential – and I AM much too multi-gifted to not BE, DO and HAVE all that
    GOD has equipped me for and planned for my good. So, I made a decree over my
    life that in 2012, I would faithfully use all that I AM, know and possess to achieve
    “transcendence”. That is, I would “transcend” beyond my self, beyond my fears,
    beyond my circumstances, beyond common knowledge and perhaps, even beyond
    comprehension. I would “transcend” into doing great things – and small things -
    that make a difference not only in my life, but in the lives of others and
    ultimately in the world, now and for future generations. This is my story – this
    is my vision – this is my mission. For these reasons, I would like to receive a
    copy of the new book, “TEN – How Would You Rate Your Life”, by Pastor Terry
    Smith. Something tells me it will be the ideal accompaniment for my journey
    toward transcendence in 2012!

  • http://www.threedimensionalvitality.com/ Ann J Musico

    Transcendence – I had not exactly thought of it in quite those terms.  I always use John 10:10 as my dividing line in life – the devil steals, kills and destroys and Jesus came to give me overflowing life!  It really simplifies things greatly to have that dividing line.  As I’ve grown in the Lord, I desire more and more to be the agent of change in my own life and in others!  Sometimes simply praying for someone brings about those flashingly brilliant moments of transcendence.  Staying in faith – speaking the end from the beginning – all these things lead to those moments.

    I deeply desire more transcendence as I choose to move out of my comfort zone and step out in faith to accomplish what I believe God has put on my heart.  Sometimes I hesitate to boldly suggest things I can offer because I  begin to think perhaps people can’t afford it or feel why would they come to me when I am not a “big name”.

    Here’s where God is teaching me I am made in the image of God and I have the same ability to create with my thoughts and words; I am never stepping out alone – He’s promised to never leave nor forsake me, so He is always with me. As I spend time with Him in prayer and in His Word, my confidence grows and I experience more transcendence.  It just makes me want even more!

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