Be "undeniably" good

“Be undeniably good. When people ask me how do you make it in show business or whatever, what I always tell them and nobody ever takes note of it ‘cause it’s not the answer they wanted to hear — what they want to hear is here’s how you get an agent, here’s how you write a script, here’s how you do this — but I always say, ‘Be so good they can’t ignore you.’ If somebody’s thinking, ‘How can I be really good?’, people are going to come to you. It’s much easier doing it that way than going to cocktail parties.”  — Steve Martin

On Tuesday I blogged about Don’t get a job with benefits and talked about how Chad is so good that people in the music industry just say – You’re “the guy!”    I love this principle of just being so good at something that people can’t ignore you.  Steve Martin always used the banjo as a prop for his comedy routines – and over time became really, really good at playing it.

Have you identified the area in which you are “undeniably good?”

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  • http://TeamEagleRevolution.com Bryan Hart

    It really takes the responsibility and places it squarely on your own shoulders when you live this way. I can’t blame the company, the manager, the traffic, the kids, or the (un)lucky breaks. 

    I am so thankful that I have begun thinking and living this way myself. It can be brutal at times, but I really don’t think there is any other way to truly live than to live knowing that it is “my” responsibility to be great.

    I am reminded of Zig Ziglar explaining how we can be mediocre if we choose to be no matter how much others perceive us as successful. I am mediocre if I am not striving to become the best I can be. When I am no longer measuring myself against the other job candidates, but striving to be an artist and a Linchpin (sorry to borrow, reading through it right now), I believe my opportunities will skyrocket.

    • Anonymous

      Bryan – yep there are a whole lot of people who do many things “well” but have never identified the one thing where they will be “undeniably good.”  I think it’s a choice we all get to make.

      • http://TeamEagleRevolution.com Bryan Hart

        “A choice we get to make…” I like that. It is something we get to experience the joy of doing.

  • Dawn Blair

    I really like this. It goes back to my saying that “Destiny is a choice.” You have to choose to be undeniably good. Figure out where you want to be, make that decision, and go for it. Thanks, Dan.

    • Anonymous

      Dawn – thanks for your comments.  We do get to choose – but that’s very cool.  It’s not chance, IQ or favorable circumstances – it’s simply a choice.

  • http://www.StumblingAroundInTheLight.com Teri Miller

    I love this.
    Brings me back to James 2, and his ‘faith and works’ argument.  One cannot exist successfully without the other.

    I can’t be the best in all things I’m drawn to, can’t even be good at them all.  But can I hone in on one. single. thing?

    I suppose that is the challenge:  seeking God’s still, small voice; finding the one thing I am called to, the one place He beckons me to, where I can intertwine faith and works to become undeniably good!

    • Anonymous

      Teri – as a wife and mommy I know you’re expected to be “good” at a whole lot of things. It may be challenging but I do think it can still be incredibly rewarding to be “undeniably good” at something.  Have fun with the challenge of finding what that is for you.

  • Bev

    I am 53 and off on a new adventure. Teri, you said it best. Thanks to all of you, especially Dan.
    Bev.

  • http://www.4PointsCoaching.com Joel Boggess

    Steve Martin is one of my favorites. Thanks Dan.

    I think our responsibility to be excellent extends also to God and to our family.

  • http://briandavidokeefe.com Brian David O’Keefe

    I’ve been a Steve Martin fan since I was a kid in the late 70′s. But it wasn’t until a couple months ago that I finally read his book “Born Standing Up.” If you’re heard of the 10,000-hour rule, then this book will show you that Steve honed his comedy over the course of many more hours than that before he made it big. I was very surprised at how long and hard he worked at his craft before most of us had ever heard of him. He was far, far from an overnight success. We can all learn from his perseverance.

  • http://www.abetterwayofbusiness.com/ Ivan Bickett

    I heard this years ago on a biography of Steve Martin. “Be so good they can’t ignore you.”

    When I was an employee at one of the many jobs I’ve held I was so good I couldn’t be ignored. My director didn’t like me and felt very threatened by me (I was told this directly in a closed door meeting about doing my job so well I made that person look bad). In spite of the bad feelings I was promoted twice and received 2 very significant raises. It seems I was so good that people further up noticed and said we need to do more for that guy.

    Fortunately, Pops raised me to “always do your best”. No matter what other people are doing. No matter how you feel. No matter the circumstances. If you’re going to do something, do your best.

    Now that I’m self employed I strive for this everyday. “Be so good they can’t ignore you.”

    Thanks for reminding of this.

    ~Ivan

  • Jeff D. Brown

    “Be undeniably good”, how simple yet how rich…wow!  I am on a journey to discover my passions and calling so I can set some powerful goals and this concept is on my short list, thanks for sharing!  I used this concept this morning and set a goal to be “undeniably good” in a given area in the Phoenix, AZ market but I’m reading some book that says it will take me 48 Days, so I’ll keep you posted!  Jeff in Phoenix

    • http://www.4PointsCoaching.com Joel Boggess

      Hi Jeff,

      48 days is an awesome timeline to work with. What can you do immediately to put yourself in the “undeniably good” category today? 

  • Jerryotsr

    A friend of my son Matt, is so god at tap dancing he has recently been recognized by several newspapers & Ellen Degenerous. He worked to pay for his own college by tap dancing in a NY subway!  Way to go Josh!!! 

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