Do you really need more than this?

In our attempts to always have more, how do we know when enough is enough?

There is a wonderful story by Leo Tolstoy, written in 1886.  The much shortened details go something like this:  There once was a peasant named Pahom who worked hard and honestly for his family, but had no land of his own.  By scrimping and saving, he managed to buy 40 acres of land.  He grew his own hay, cut his own trees, and fed his own cattle.  Then one day a passing merchant told Pahom that he had purchased thirteen thousand acres of rich land for only one thousand rubles.  Pahom traveled more than three hundred miles to this rich land to explore for himself.  The chief of the land told him the price was always the same:  one thousand rubles a day.  As much land as you can walk around in a day is yours and the price is one thousand rubles.

The next day Pahom began at daybreak.  He walked toward the rising sun,
moving quickly through the lush countryside.  He sparingly drank his water and ate his bread to keep himself refreshed.  Several times he saw areas that he knew would do well and added them to his circle.  But now his feet were sore, he was exhausted from the heat, and his legs began to fail.  Still he walked on.  Now the sun was close to the rim and was about to set but he was also quite near his aim.  Just a little more land and he would hurry back to the starting point.  He added a small pond and a few trees he knew would add to his wealth and his family would enjoy.  He ran on, throwing off his coat, his boots, his flask and his cap.  He gathered his last strength and ran on.  As he neared the final goal, his legs gave way beneath him, and he fell forward and clasped the goal marker in his hands.

His servant came running up and tried to raise him, but he saw that blood was flowing from his mouth.   Pahom was dead!  His servant picked up a spade and dug a grave long enough for Pahom to lie in.  Six feet from his head to his heels was all he needed.

 

Sometimes our quest for more defies common sense.  Guard against being so busy making a living that you end up not having a life to enjoy it.

 

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  • http://www.xenoncomic.com Devin Smith

    Thanks for this, Dan. Right on time.

  • http://seekoutwisdom.blogspot.com Joseph Iliff of SeekOutWisdom

    Indeed, it is very easy to lose sight of the cost of “more” in the pursuit of it.  Stuff isn’t free.  It takes capital, energy, and perhaps most importantly time.  You can lose your health pursuing wealth, and then spend your wealth trying to regain your health.  It is wise to ask, “Is it really worth it?” and “If I had it, what would I trade it for?”.

  • Judy Yaron

    Have been following your blog for a while. Really good stuff – both the original and “borrowed”. Appreciated. Thank you! 
    Judy 

  • http://talesofwork.com kimanzi constable

    As a Christian I have to believe what our Lord said in Matthew: “Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and ALL these things will be added onto you!”

  • http://www.FamilyLifeLearners.com NamasteMamaRose

    Wow – brilliant post.  It’s easy to get so wrapped up in planning for the future, making those few extra dollars, and aspiring for more that sometimes we forget what is right under our noses.  Do you really need a million dollars to be happy? 
    I wonder (thinking outside of the box here)…if he had walked a shorter distance…cultivated that area to profit, utilized his profits to then walk some more another day, and keep building…ultimately it would have cost more money, but during the process he would have been using every bit of the land he wanted – being a good steward of the property he owned, and only taking more when it was needed. 
    We live in a gluttonous society – we take just because it’s a deal, or we’re afraid if we don’t get it right now we’ll miss the opportunity forever.  What if we let go of having just to have, and simply embraced what we do have and work to make it thrive for us?  Whether that is property, our work, relationships, our physical body…what we have is our starting point – act on that and improve and acquire as you thrive in what you have and are in the present.

    • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1776483863 Michelle Wright

      I like that idea. It covers the balance issue because it’s a process of several steps over time. It’s also the natural result of the instruction Kimanzi mentions from Matthew. If we are seeking God first, we won’t be overtaken by greed and will love others. That means God will be first, people second and things last.

  • http://www.facebook.com/ephantus.waititu Ephantus Waititu

    surely a good stuff for all chasers of gold at their own cost. we should have a balance. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/ephantus.waititu Ephantus Waititu

    Surely a good stuff for us all.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sheri-Johnson-Steele/100000598693885 Sheri Johnson Steele

    This is so true!

  • Leslie

    Love this! Sometime back, I decided it was foolish to be putting in 60-70 hours a week or more and not living. A year after I was laid off, I realized this was my opportunity! I had always wanted to help others and live in a different country. When I applied as a volunteer, I was offered what previously would have been a great dream job and turned it down because I knew what it would have required of me. After I was accepted to the volunteer position, I turned down two more job offers – all in 2010 and 2011. I now live and volunteer in Jerusalem, Israel. Do I regret turning those jobs down? Not on your (or my) life! I may not have television, air conditioning, a car, or many “things” at all. What I do have is a life and a world before me where I can do something that really counts to make life better for others.

  • vctgraphics

    This rings true personally and professionally. I have seen so many people at work who say they would love to help train an intern and give them the benefits of their knowledge but “They don’t have time!”. Then I have spoken with a friend who is working two jobs, exhausted all the time and going to school. He says “it’s for my kids” and if you ask the kids they just know they never see their dad. So whatever goal he thinks he is striving for will be in vain because his kids will want nothing to do with any that comes from a dad they never see or get to spend “quality” time with. 

    That word “Quality” speaks volumes to people who want to multitask through a project and never benefit from the knowledge because they did not take the time to really enjoy the work! This holds true for kids. If you do not MAKE the time to spend “QUALITY” time getting to know them, sharing special moments like a play they are in or a volleyball game they are playing or even the rough day they had at school – all the money and possessions in the world will not make them happy because it came from a person who could not show love when they were alive. 

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