Are you more than what you have become?

Remember the scene in The Lion King where Simba is being challenged to go back home and be the king he was born to be?  Simba ran from his destiny – the struggle in confronting his mean uncle was just too difficult.  But now he looks in the water and sees the subtle reflection of his father, Mufasa, who says, “You have forgotten who you are….   Look inside yourself, Simba.  You are more than what you have become…Remember who you are.”

Be clear about what is being said here.  Mufasa didn’t tell Simba he should have gotten another degree, should be living in a bigger house or should be making more money.  He simply said, “You are more than what you have become.” Becoming more is much different than having or doing more.

It’s easier to quantity doing than being.

We can quantify what we do.  How many sales we made, how many miles we drove, how many chairs were built or how many pages were written.  It’s also easy to see things that need to be done – dishes need to be washed, beds that need to be made or podcasts that need to be recorded.  Being is harder to quantify and measure – being a great Mom, being a spiritual leader, being a compassionate friend, an understanding boss, or a caring, loving neighbor.

Becoming more may require doing less.

Are you destined to be more than you have become?

 

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  • Archie

    The Lion King; this little movie with much meaning reminds me of my son Austin, of which I sit for hours and hours with him watching this movie when he was very young (he and I still watch it together every now and then).
    Austin is graduating from high school this Saturday (May 21, 2011). I have taught him a lot about being and doing the very best that he can, at anything he is most passionate about. He’s gonna fire in some direction, and hopefully we’ve aimed him in the RIGHT direction.
    Great post Dan, love it. -Archie  

    • Anonymous

      Archie – out little lions grow up too quickly don’t they.  Hopefully as parents we’ve provided the environment to nurture and release their greatness.   

  • Coach4him

    You have NO idea how timely and specifically direct the article, down to the actual video and its specific question has played and is playing into my life at this precise moment.  I have listened to a sermon (if you want to call it that) by Lance Wallnau who had visited our former church in July 2008.   In the past two months I have repeatedly listened to the message to get it in me.  There is a spot in the message where the video is shown (I was there in person when recorded) and it is a major point of emphasis.   If interested, go to http://www.christcc.org and go to the MESSAGES link and to the the earliest of the two messages that should be out there (7/5 I believe)   Thank you for writing this today…..exactly on schedule 

  • http://www.chrisrepp.com ChrisR

    Powerful and penetrating post Dan. Thanks for helping us see the forests of life through the trees of work.

  • Amorreale

    Dan – The world has “grown up” counting, i.e., everything.  “Score” is kept on all jobs/work – even on the priest/pastor/rabbi/teacher.  In my opinion the problem is that we count the things that are easily counted which most often are the wrong things to count …

  • Martha

    Thanks for your teachings, they are always great! 

  • Javajcordero

     

    Do I live my life to the fullest? I am fearfully and
    wonderfully made, but do I embrace that daily? Do I see myself as beautiful? Do
    I see myself the way my Father does? Or, do I live in the past? Do I go through
    the day doing what I do, what I’ve always done, and probably always will? When
    I look in the mirror what do I see, failure or success?  Hopeless or hopeful?  The past, present, or future?

    God, the maker of the universe, this world, you and me, made
    me for a reason. Am I just waiting for that reason to happen, or will I see my
    potential and develop into what He has purposed me to be?

    I now know that I am so much more then I see. The potential
    is incredible. But this isn’t how I’ve lived or acted. I am where I am because
    of what I‘ve done and haven’t done. It is by God’s grace that I’m still here.
    He has so much more for me to be. I have to believe this and take action,
    moving onward and upward to His calling and plan. I may not know the next step,
    but I believe that He does and will lead as I take it.

    I can’t base where I’m going on where I’ve been. What I can
    be has little to do with what I am or have been. What I want to be, can be, and
    need to be have everything to do with where I’m going. I have to choose and
    take action. If I’m not growing I’m dying. If I’m not moving forward I’m
    slipping backward. If I’m not learning I’m forgetting what I’ve learned. If I’m
    not exercising I’m losing what abilities I’ve had.

    Perfection? What good has waiting for the right and perfect
    idea, opportunity, or circumstances done? Even if I’d spent the past forty + years
    trying to do something and failed, at least I’d know many many ways not to do
    it, and possibly have discovered many ways to do other things along the way. At
    least I’d have learned, tried, exercised, developed, experienced, moved and
    gained some ground. Instead I’ve only developed fear, false security, and
    irresponsibility.

    When these thoughts were pouring into my head the other day,
    the song by MercyMe, Beautiful, was playing in my mind.

  • dora2120

    I recently quit my job and i feel like i’m being a mom now. Not just doing chores. Thank you for this. Very encouraging

  • Clay Jackson

    Each time I get laid off from work  or face a job change, I look at it as a new
    opportunity to better myself, to find something more fitting for me. After
    working for others for all of my working life, I would love to have the
    opportunity to work for myself or run a small business and employ others without  the fear of being unemployed or have no income.

  • Brenda

    Yes, I needed to hear this, I am getting divorced, I don’t make alot of money, but am trying to improve myself. I joined a gym which is helping, I am struggling with my sister n law slepted with my soon to be ex. and now is going to join my church.  I am worried I won’t be able to support myself.  I know i can do more.  Brenda 

  • http://www.4PointsCoaching.com Joel Boggess

    Great analogy from the movie.

    Doing less and becoming more can be a challenging concept for so many people. Especially when, over time, a person’s occupation has become so ingrained into their identity. “Oh I’m just a (fill in the blank)”.

    A wonderful starting point for people who are determined to become more than they are involves looking inward at their best features and enduring qualities. The DISC personality and career assessment is one of many available coaching tools to help with insight on this.

    Once you have clarity as to your core personality style, harnessing your gifts and creating meaningful priorities, becomes exciting.

  • Sabastian Atwood

    For a nice spiritual perspective on this, check out this talk from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints: http://lds.org/general-conference/2011/04/what-manner-of-men-and-women-ought-ye-to-be?lang=eng

    • Anonymous

      Sebastian – thanks for the link – what a great article.  I loved this point:
      Many of us create to do lists to remind us of things we want to accomplish. But people rarely have to be lists. Why? To do’s are activities or events that can be checked off the list when done. To be, however, is never done. You can’t earn checkmarks with to be’s. I can take my wife out for a lovely evening this Friday, which is a to do. But being a good husband is not an event; it needs to be part of my nature—my character, or who I am.

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