Never Catch the Fox

I had the privilege recently of meeting with a distinguished businessman.  And no, I didn’t go to a nursing home to see this gentleman.  Bill is now 81 years old but came to my office with a very big business proposal for a joint venture that would gain full benefit in the next 3-5 years.  He had a spring in his step and a sparkle in his eyes – obviously enjoying every minute of our business discussion.

In asking a little about his background, Bill shared that he had some early successes in business and “retired” to an island just off the east coast in 1991 – eighteen years ago at the age of 63.  He had achieved the success he was looking for and would never have to worry about money again.  And then he told me, “Living on that island was the most miserable four years of my life.” He returned to his roots in business and re-engaged in the daily challenges that drove him previously.

His summary of what happened was simply – “Never catch the fox.” What do the hounds do if they ever catch the fox, or what does a dog do if he actually catches the car?  Watch them sit down and lose interest quickly.  Cervantes said, “The road is better than the inn.”

Don’t think reaching your goal is the only thrill.  Understand that the process of getting there is actually more thrilling than arriving.  I loved Bill’s gentle reminder to me to not just dream of the future – but to savor today.  Enjoy every step of your journey!

 

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  • http://profiles.google.com/perezk1 Ken Perez

    Great reminder to enjoy everyday Dan–thanks for posting this.

  • Blake Pennington

    Dan-what a phenomenal article and reminder. Turns out retiring and sitting on an exotic beach mindlessly daydreaming about nothingness isn’t as glamorous as America makes it out to be! Yet it seems to be what everyone is striving for.

  • http://twitter.com/iyasostuff Osayi

    Always create new foxes to catch…

  • Mike

    Dan
    Are you referring to Bill Allen?

  • JDW

    I have always enjoyed “The Station” (~poem) by Robert Hastings – exact same sort of thinking

  • Eric

    Amazing. Just this very morning during a short quiet time I had a similar thought, and I wrote about it in my journal. If I may share (I know it’s long for a comment, but I have to share – my apologies):

    “Projects for Eternity” – this is a phrase that came to mind as I was thinking about what I would do that would have eternal significance. Related to reading the Bill Hybels book “The Power of a Whisper” where he tells of being at the Copacabana in Rio in his early 20s, and hearing an older couple talk about how all the hard work they’d done all their life had found its climax in being at that hotel. Being at the hotel himself, Hybels feared having “reached the summit” at such an early age and have nothing to do with the rest. Another way I saw it was the futility of placing so much relevance on such a temporal thing – ultimately meaningless. What can we do that will have meaning? Projects for Eternity.

    Projects for Eternity can (and should) sometimes be fueled by our Holy Discontent (another Hybels book) – that “something” that stirs our passion to action for the kingdom of God. Projects for Eternity also, be definition, will never be completed before you die. You will never know the full impact of what you’ve done until you die. Thus, they not only give you something to always be working on (you’ll never have nothing to do!), but also change your perspective by focusing it away from yourself to God, and away from the temporal to the eternal.”

    The first example is my kids and their spiritual training. I’ll never know the full impact until I’m in heaven. But I had to share because the timing was simply providential. Thank for letting me share.

    • Anonymous

      Eric – sometimes I’m concerned for kids today that seem to have success too quickly. If they reach all their goals by 26 years old, what will they have to look forward to? Obviously there are always new mountains to climb but I think we also need to enjoy the slow road to success that most of us experience.

  • Joanne Miller

    Love that Cervantes quote and you and I know that often the “road to the inn” is more important and actually more pleasurable than the actual destiny.  Great blog!

    • Anonymous

      Yep – we’ve enjoyed the journey in many many ways.  Love you!

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