Just a “simple” man

Being “simple” can override the best  intelligence and education.

It’s been my habit for many years to read the chapter of Proverbs that corresponds to the day of the month.  This week in Proverbs 7:7 I read, “I saw among the simple, I noticed among the young men, a youth who lacked judgment.” Another translation says, “void of understanding.” I have read this hundreds of times and have always assumed that “simple” actually meant a guy who just wasn’t too bright – maybe a little slow – you know, one wheel in the sand.  However, this morning I was sitting out on our porch and picked up Joanne’s study Bible with this note:  “The person who has no purpose in life is simple-minded.  Without aim or direction, an empty life is unstable, vulnerable to many temptations.” (Life Application Study Bible)

Wow – all of a sudden I see that very differently.  “No purpose, no direction.” This is not a function of IQ or education.  This can be true of a Rhodes scholar or the valedictorian of your graduating class.  And what happens to a person with no purpose?  He/she is vulnerable to whatever circumstances come along.  Get a job offer working in the salt mine – sure, why not.  It’s a job.  Chance to go back to law school, of course.  Cousin Vinny was a mobster, why don’t you be one too.  Okay!

Zig Ziglar talks about being a “wandering generality.”  Athletes don’t win races, CEOs don’t gain positions, ladies aren’t great mothers, and scientists don’t create new formulas without having specific goals defined in advance.  Having a specific plan is like harnessing the power of Niagara Falls to create a massive amount of electricity.

“Give me a stock clerk with a goal and I will give you a man who will make history.  Give me a man without a goal, and I will give you a stock clerk.”  — J.C. Penney

Don’t be a 45-yr-old college educated “simple” person.  Finding your purpose and calling are critical and must precede any reasonable life choices.  Clear goals in each area of your life keeps you focused on the positive goal.

Incidentally, the “simple” young man in the Proverbs verse goes on to spend the night with a very disreputable lady.  He “followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose.” Don’t let unclear direction open you to a similarly disastrous fate!

What are you doing today that proves you are not a “simple” person?

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  • Fran

    Thanks for sharing this, Dan. Just what I needed! Thanks, again!

  • http://www.joshbulloc.com Josh Bulloc

    Dan,

    I have borrowed your method for yearly goal setting so each year I start designing my goals for the following year at this time. Each year I learn a bit more how I can better set and achieve my goals. This year I am starting out by designing my ideal life. I am doing this because I realized that I can have some of my ideal life now and chasing goals for the sake of chasing goals is worthless. I am also developing a worksheet to help others flesh out their ideal lives and hope to have it in my website in the next month (www.thebootstrapcoach.com).

    Josh Bulloc
    Kansas City, MO
    How can I help?

  • http://levittcoaching.com Josh Levitt

    Thanks, Dan! I try to do the daily Proverbs plan as well. I haven’t made it to today’s, but I will now. I’ll read it with this direction in mind now too.

    It’s another great example of the need to be intentional.

    Today, I’m being intentional about my social media interactions. I’m seeking out someone to help… just as you’ve encouragement me.

  • http://www.48days.com Dan Miller

    Josh – being able to “see” the life you want in advance is a major success principle. Most people look at their life in the rear-view mirror. By designing your ideal life you can expect it to come into reality. Keep us posted!

  • Liisa

    Hi Dan,

    I liked your take on being “simple”. I am about halfway through your book (no more dreaded mondays) and am loving it. I have this intense feeling that God has a plan for me and that I am not fulfilling it. So i Started writing about my self limiting beliefs yesterday and it is a very interesting exercise. One thing that really caught my attention as I pondered your question about goals, having them and achieving them is that I don’t know where I want to be in five years. I just know that I would love to wake up each day and feel excitied about my life and what I am doing with it.

    I guess I have some work to do to uncover what I am supposed to be doing.

    Thank you.

    Liisa

  • http://www.joshbulloc.com Josh Bulloc

    I was a little early but I have posted my ideal life worksheet to help people flesh out their ideal lives: http://www.thebootstrapcoach.com/joshs-home-made-worksheets-from-site

    Josh Bulloc
    Kansas City, MO
    How can I help?

  • Georgette

    I really enjoyed this post, but one little thing confuses me…this past Tuesday was 9/7/10, not 7/7/10.
    Either the first paragraph was written in July and set aside to develop later, or you’re using an older Roman calendar–back when september was truly the seventh month. It’s a minor detail, but I was curious. :-)

  • http://www.eddiehudson3.com Eddie Hudson

    Hey Dan (et al). My life has changed and I’m getting a grip on what I want out of life and more importantly, my contribution. Admittedly, the adult years were abysmal! I graduated from college in ’84 and thought “now what?” I had goals and hopes, but I packed them away as unobtainable. But the Lord walks all things to his advantage.

    I’m drawing and painting and though the need for income is an ever-present thought, what’s important now is practicing my craft and developing my person. My goals are living up to the standard God has set for me. I speak in general non-specific terms, but in truth, my work has to speak clearly and when it does, it communicates to the soul. That’s my work and that’s my purpose.

  • Brett

    Georgette,

    If I understood Dan’s post and your question about it, the idea with reading proverbs is that you read a chapter each day. So on the 7th day of each month, you read chapter 7. So whether it was 9/7/2010 or 7/7/2010, Dan would’ve read chapter 7 on each of those days…

    Does that help or did I mis-understand your question?

    —————-

    Dan,

    That word “simple” always makes me cringe. I hate the idea of thinking of myself as simple. In another version of the bible, the Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB) it translates the word simple as “inexperienced.” I like inexperienced better because it gives me the hope that there is a path or process that I can go from simple to not simple or from inexperience to not experienced.

    But whether it’s translated simple or inexperienced, I agree with the idea of having your purpose in mind as you go about your day, your week, your year, etc…It’s like the saying goes “If you aim at nothing, you’ll hit it every time.”

    Thanks BTW for the e-mail newsletters!

    Brett
    Houston, TX

  • mattie dibona

    that was a wonderful idea regarding matching bible readings to the day of the month. thanks for sharing it with us.

  • Wendy H.

    Dan,
    I enjoyed this article. Thank you so much for sharing that!

    Presently, I am enrolled in college to acquire a business degree that will ultimately help me as I one day own and operate five bed and breakfast locations.

    Thank you for wonderful reminders to keep on track and keep moving!

    Regards,
    Wendy

  • http://igathernomoss.com Brian O’Keefe

    Dan,

    After 22 great years in the software industry, today was my last day! I going full time with my Gather No Moss business. As I was saying my goodbyes at work today, everyone I talked to said that they wished they could do the same thing. I joked with many of them that I’ll come back in six months to do a seminar on how to leave your job and follow your passion :)

    Looking forward to Monday, my first day working for my new employer…me!

  • http://www.48days.com Dan Miller

    Brian – congratulations on making the big move! Hope you enjoy your new boss.

  • Doug Stokke

    Hi Dan,

    Your insightful commentary on the woefully simple man of Proverbs 7:7 hit me right between the eyes. I’ll admit, to my shame, that there have been times in my life that I’ve been that guy who seemed to have little purpose. I’ve even thought of and described myself as “just a simple guy from Iowa” so your words stung a bit. However, I’ll try to share with you how I am trying to prove I am not simple in the negative sense of the word by living as a simple man in the positive sense.

    As “a simple guy from Iowa” I was relieved to find in my dictionary that the first two definitions of simple are in the positive sense in which I seek to live my life: “1. free from guile: INNOCENT 2 a: free from vanity: MODEST b: free from ostentation or display.” I see these senses of the word as positive attributes and therefore aim at living in this manner, respecting God and others. My “simple” lifestyle includes reading and reflecting on the Bible, service work in my church and community, and making a point of being available and willing to help others in the workplace.

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the negative meaning of simple. It helped me to reconsider the positive sense of the word in my own life. Funny thing, but my own Bible reading plan this year has me currently in Proverbs (and 2 Corinthians). I just read this morning a couple of other verses that warn us against being simple in the negative sense: “A simple man believes anything, but a prudent man gives thought to his steps…The simple inherit folly, but the prudent are crowned with knowledge” (14:15 and 14:18).

    Peace and blessings,

    Doug Stokke

  • William

    Wow, This is me. I am stunned to say the least.

  • http://www.printnetmarketing.com Jim

    No simplicity for me. One step at a time…Right toward my goal! Looks like next week we get to take our next step!

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